The Alpha, the Feminine, and Relationships
“Nice guys finish last” …so do nice girls. It’s the ebb and flow of energy, or in this case, lack thereof. When someone is too passive, too agreeable, or too sweet all of the time, the frequency of that energy will do one of two things: It will connect with its opposite in the other person, creating a type of dominance, or it will reflect a similar energy from the other person and create stillness. All energy needs to have ebb and flow. Without its counterpart, things get off balance. One will most likely get bored or annoyed with always having to balance out the “too” much of anything. It is important that we learn a balance within our own personality. Now that doesn’t imply being mean, but we must be strong enough to put up boundaries and have opinions. Some people will say they don’t like a person who can’t make decisions. Passiveness is a sign of weakness, and then the strength of the polar side, will eventually dominate. This creates a disconnect between the two